45 things a lady wants from her man but would not ask for ... Part 1

Well, in my observation it seems like real men left with d generation of our daddies. Either that or the brothers these days aren't well schooled, when it comes to "how to treat a gurl right". not that am complain'n coz i mean, 4 real...mine's an absolute gentleman...(ladies- stay clear)! Anyhoo, i decided 2 go a lil' old school myself to get some of them tricks on just how to handle a lady and any of you all reading this right now would have to admit; its a grey hat's touch (if u catch my meaning). So guys, if your short of these pointers,yo u need to put ur game face on, please that lady of yours and hit me back with a feedback because am super confident that if what you were doing previously wasn't doing the trick (what ever that is), these certainly will;

The Hand Bag Necessities

So my colleague asked me this morning why I had to carry such big handbags everyday, and I couldn’t help but wonder same thing. Am I carrying all this stuff because there is room?
...So I decided to make a mental inventory with justification for each item:

My cell phones: Seriously, do you expect me to wear pants with pockets bulging out from holding my cell phone? Nope! That’s certainly not a diva’s way.

what we can learn from Genevieve Nnaji

Dynamic: when it comes to energy, Genevieve definitely brings it. Thinking back on movies like sheron stone, dangerous sisters and a host of love movies she starred in, I do believe her lively persona aided her act in interpreting some of her characters.

My best of Micheal Jackson for this year...

In Memory of Micheal Jackson.
what is your All time Micheal Jackson favorite song?

The maxi black dress

dress by house of nwocha
image via houseofnwocha.com

 Is the Maxi black dress, the new Little black dress?

color blocking 101

image via blackandkillingit.com

Enough sisters!! no more dressing like a color chart off a paint catalogue.
Get out your writing pads and pens, we about to have a lecture.

Color is undeniably the signature of this season, and when well put together produces the effect of beautiful, fun, girl next door, sexy chic. color blocking simply means wearing different colors in one outfit. Wearing bold and bright Colors indicate Confidence.

gentlemen wear

Micheal Bastian

Images Via GQ.com

I once saw a guy wearing a pink shirt, green pants, yellow shoes and a red messenger bag...(colorful catastrophe)

gentle men wear

Bottega Veneta

Images Via GQ.com

Suits are awesome, and every style conscious male should own them in various colors(black, grey coffee or navy blue), patterns and designs.

threading now

FCT- Abuja

You know you are in ABUJA, when?

(Threading now is a game on play diary, where you post a comment with a characteristic of the question) 

The Edited Ol Anthem

I recently came across the former Nigerian National Anthem, written by Lilian Jean Williams and composed by Frances Berda and I made a few editions of my own.

Through tongue and tribe we differ

In brotherhood we stand

DAD model

 ..so yesterday was Fathers day, I had a great time with my dad. The guy is awesome…yes I agree, your dad is awesome too. Our dads are,

I love how times have changed the relationships between fathers  and their children. From stories I have heard and books I have read, it used to be that fathers were more of family deity than family member. Now we have such cool dads who take us out to dinner, let us go to night parties with friends..or not,  let us hang out with boyfriends..absolutely not

Though it may seem that the dad duties are placed in a man's head by default, there are many kinds of dads out there just like there are different kinds of men

Ash n Chi'ko

make up by KIORO's makeup
photography by Jenevieve Aken

Be Happy

Happiness, the English dictionary defines as a feeling of pleasure, satisfaction and joy.

Happiness I define as a very important spice of life.

It is very easy to neglect one’s happiness in pursuit of other goals; I believe that one can only achieve maximum potential when truly happy. I hear lots of folks say “I produce better results under pressure” and my question is “for how long can you survive under such pressure” right after I ask them “why are you telling lies”

Iamsohappy

“People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway. 
If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.

Oty

Chy

makeup by KIORO's makeup
photography by Jenevieve Aken

chi'ko

make up by KIORO's makeup
photography by Jenevieve Aken

Ashh-ley

make up by KIORO's makeup
photography by Jenevieve Aken